It left me in tears too. But for reasons unlike my friends. Especially during this month of May, that includes not only Mother's Day, but also Christopher's birthday.
What a kick in the gut.
This wonderful son, grown up and serving in the military. Who had been born to a single mom who gave up her dreams of becoming a professional athlete after finding herself pregnant with him.
This wonderful son, who praised all the sacrifices his mom had made for him. This wonderful son, who praised all the amazing things he was able to accomplish because of the love that he had from his mom.
While I try to not play the "What If" Game, I found myself also in tears ~ wondering what my life, what my son's life, might have been like if I had raised him instead of losing him to adoption.
I have not one single doubt that I would have been a wonderful mother to Christopher. I had taken care of many children from the time I was twelve years old ~ I was a regular babysitter for several families in my neighborhood. One of the families was so secure with my ability and maturity that by the age of 14 I was watching their two children overnight while the parents were out of town for the weekend.
I have no doubt that I would have been a better mother to my raised kids also ~ I would not have been parenting with the unaddressed trauma of losing my firstborn child to adoption. I would have been a better wife and daughter, better to myself.
So. Enough with that game of "What If" ~ It gets you nowhere and only ends in grief and anger.
While this commercial was a kick in the gut to me, I hope that any unmarried mothers-to-be who watch it gain strength from it. If you are young and/or unmarried and facing an unexpected pregnancy, being a great mom IS possible, despite all that the adoption industry and the seemingly perfect prospective adoptive parents want you to believe.