tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6953239816472596984.post6352906467559446312..comments2023-09-18T06:33:39.097-05:00Comments on Finding Christopher, Finding Myself: Dreams...Susiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15929169562563801608noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6953239816472596984.post-3539624951828664462013-04-17T21:50:43.244-05:002013-04-17T21:50:43.244-05:00Oh Barb!! How horrible! We would never have know...Oh Barb!! How horrible! We would never have known that losing a child to adoption would effect the kids we went on to have afterwards, huh? <br />Hugs right back at ya...Susiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15929169562563801608noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6953239816472596984.post-39992859249141422952013-04-17T18:29:03.167-05:002013-04-17T18:29:03.167-05:00My raised daughter had a dream that we adopted out...My raised daughter had a dream that we adopted out her and my raised son to my sister to raise because (in the dream) I was pregnant again and I told her we couldn't afford her and my son anymore. She begged us to keep her but we wouldn't.<br />Crap, adoption haunts all of us in our sleep and awake.<br />Hugs to you having to deal with dreams like this.Barbara Thavishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13646036820037271522noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6953239816472596984.post-73680800543440018542013-04-06T17:03:49.326-05:002013-04-06T17:03:49.326-05:00Nothing to offer other than a hug. I have these ad...Nothing to offer other than a hug. I have these adoption based dreams several times a year. So lucid, so upsetting, they stay with me for days. I can offer only a hug and some empathy.suzhttp://writingmywrongs.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6953239816472596984.post-84665428223407595132013-04-05T16:39:04.669-05:002013-04-05T16:39:04.669-05:00The sentence that stood out the most to me was thi...The sentence that stood out the most to me was this "He's not visiting with anyone, isn't social like everyone else there."<br /><br />This makes me think that your subconscious is telling you that either Christopher does not fit in with his a-family or that he should never have become a member of the a-family in the first place. I think the water represents your tears and grief about this.Robinnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6953239816472596984.post-20673098057303608462013-03-29T21:32:01.470-05:002013-03-29T21:32:01.470-05:00I agree, tears and grief.I also agree the more we ...I agree, tears and grief.I also agree the more we show of each of these, the more we are shunned.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6953239816472596984.post-63475686302302489232013-03-29T14:31:12.626-05:002013-03-29T14:31:12.626-05:00The first thing I thought of was water breaking, a...The first thing I thought of was water breaking, as in child birth. But Kellie's explanation makes more sense.Rebecca Hawkeshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10736626549316682171noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6953239816472596984.post-38691137879092629382013-03-28T16:22:35.843-05:002013-03-28T16:22:35.843-05:00I'm not the best at interpreting dreams, but I...I'm not the best at interpreting dreams, but I think the water represents your tears, or more accurately, your grief. You don't want to show your son's mother because you will be cut off from him if you do. The more grief you show, the more she encourages your son to stay away from you. True for a lot of first mothers, I've heard.<br />I'm so sorry this has been done to you. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07165737918653065179noreply@blogger.com