tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6953239816472596984.post9115237798169795782..comments2023-09-18T06:33:39.097-05:00Comments on Finding Christopher, Finding Myself: A Special Place In Hell For These AdoptersSusiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15929169562563801608noreply@blogger.comBlogger18125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6953239816472596984.post-21589870366547544022012-03-06T16:19:43.306-06:002012-03-06T16:19:43.306-06:00"Too often we are shown evidence that many ad..."Too often we are shown evidence that many adoptive parents hate the natural family of their adopted children. They cannot view the child as anything but a possession, a blank slate in which they have written all their hopes, desires, and demands upon. They have dehumanized our children and many use religion as a sword and a shield to claim what they believe belongs to them."<br /> <br />If this statement isn't the truth, I don't know what is...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6953239816472596984.post-19572618731497092472012-03-03T12:41:39.310-06:002012-03-03T12:41:39.310-06:00Heartbreaking, truly heartbreaking. I like Princes...Heartbreaking, truly heartbreaking. I like Princess Aurora's momma wish and will show my daughter's adoptive parents the same respect and kindness they have shown me, my husband and my children. <br /><br />Too often we are shown evidence that many adoptive parents hate the natural family of their adopted children. They cannot view the child as anything but a possession, a blank slate in which they have written all their hopes, desires, and demands upon. They have dehumanized our children and many use religion as a sword and a shield to claim what they believe belongs to them.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6953239816472596984.post-76868024449967090462012-02-28T20:37:18.243-06:002012-02-28T20:37:18.243-06:00And these type of people will again scoop another ...And these type of people will again scoop another birthmom into the great concept of open adoption. They should be strung up and left hanging somewhere so they can not have another child.richannmhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12820847244568313432noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6953239816472596984.post-65304092778181523962012-02-28T19:18:19.462-06:002012-02-28T19:18:19.462-06:00I wish them the same respect and kindness they sho...I wish them the same respect and kindness they showed me.Princess Aurora's mommahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02052939052566800261noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6953239816472596984.post-46202506997964796752012-02-28T10:04:01.579-06:002012-02-28T10:04:01.579-06:00My heart breaks for this mother and the despicably...My heart breaks for this mother and the despicably cruel lack of compassion shown to her and her family. You're right, Susie, there is a special place in hell waiting just for them. Until then, I hope their life is filled with the same lack of compassion and cruelty they showed this mother.Lauriehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16349114111710527622noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6953239816472596984.post-23620649289085955682012-02-28T08:21:16.155-06:002012-02-28T08:21:16.155-06:00I will never understand the lack of compassion. I ...I will never understand the lack of compassion. I am speechless!!Two Halves Wholehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03850300746010588264noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6953239816472596984.post-91063264425714763852012-02-28T08:13:11.596-06:002012-02-28T08:13:11.596-06:00Oh my goodness, that's awful. I wish I were s...Oh my goodness, that's awful. I wish I were shocked, but sadly I am not. I just can't understand such a complete lack of love. : (<br /><br />MichelleMichellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09180212836126704979noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6953239816472596984.post-45989220093090425212012-02-28T07:35:35.772-06:002012-02-28T07:35:35.772-06:00"What was she possibly going to do? Take som..."What was she possibly going to do? Take some of the attention away from the adopters?"<br /><br />That is exactly what it is about, having all the attention and parental glory all for themselves; when if not for her they would not have a child to covet.<br /><br />I can relate to what this mother has been through, 100%. I don't know how I could contain myself if I were her and I tried to attend MY own flesh and blood's funeral, only to be dehumanized and degraded.<br /><br />I said the exact same thing about my child's adopters, that I hope there is a special place in the hell of their god's making, just for them. They claim to be such good "Christians", yet treated me with nothing but malice and disdain after they stopped communicating with me when my child was only 7. They are nothing but hateful, cold-hearted hypocrites and I turned away from religion altogether after my experience. Unfortunately for my child, they have him so brainwashed it is disturbing. <br /><br />The hatred I feel for people who do this knows no bounds. My blood boils just reading this...PhoenixRisinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07655924058370540037noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6953239816472596984.post-58038828962340531362012-02-28T05:46:22.326-06:002012-02-28T05:46:22.326-06:00At this point, which is only 1 year in to my '...At this point, which is only 1 year in to my 'open' adoption......I am so so so so heartsick and sad to say that NOTHING that happens that is hurtul, bad or truly evil in the world of adoption phases me anymore. I have come across some of the most heartless individuals and seen things first hand that just make my mind spin. Unfortunately, it's becoming more and more apparent, that this industry needs complete and total reform. I am so so sorry for this kind soul who has offered to help one of the women I was able to 'reach' and help keep her baby. My thoughts and prayers are with her and her family, and will be for quite some time to come. This, is one more story to add to the list (which is growing daily) of all the injustices in the adoption industry.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6953239816472596984.post-652908693410660812012-02-27T23:13:52.502-06:002012-02-27T23:13:52.502-06:00The pure arrogance of the adopters shines through ...The pure arrogance of the adopters shines through here, their sense of entitlement with not the least bit of gratitude shown towards the woman that made them "parents". There is a special place in hell for them, and guess what, the child will not be there. She will be waiting for her natural mother, the mother who loved her through everything, in heaven.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6953239816472596984.post-25712776066762165972012-02-27T22:01:44.967-06:002012-02-27T22:01:44.967-06:00This mom doesn't write her story for the publi...This mom doesn't write her story for the public anymore, due to the ap's actions. I will let her know to come read your comments here.Susiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15929169562563801608noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6953239816472596984.post-45739750828995759552012-02-27T21:17:44.845-06:002012-02-27T21:17:44.845-06:00Very sad story. but sadly it doesn't surprise ...Very sad story. but sadly it doesn't surprise me.birthmothertalkshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17690158739622745922noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6953239816472596984.post-47168580504327199792012-02-27T19:27:37.532-06:002012-02-27T19:27:37.532-06:00Oh Susie, what a deeply heartbreaking post :( I w...Oh Susie, what a deeply heartbreaking post :( I wish I could say this shocks me however sadly it does not. Merely adoption working its "magic".<br /><br />The poor mother, how heartbreaking for her... after all she did to save her child's life and they still couldn't have the grace to allow this mother to attend her own child's funeral. There really are not enough adjectives to describe the cruelty of these actions. No karma bad enough to mete out what they deserve. Sickening.<br /><br />Yeah, if there is more to the story I'd love to hear it or a way we can allow the mother to know we care... email me or let me know via fb. Much love to all involved with the mother and to her especially.Mysthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07425550479815459790noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6953239816472596984.post-59522933823698200472012-02-27T18:14:19.051-06:002012-02-27T18:14:19.051-06:00Would you please add a link, I would also like to ...Would you please add a link, I would also like to read more.Pamhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12588420791721245309noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6953239816472596984.post-2171985550260336092012-02-27T18:14:14.298-06:002012-02-27T18:14:14.298-06:00Incredibly mean-spirited - no words. My heart goe...Incredibly mean-spirited - no words. My heart goes out to the mother.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6953239816472596984.post-66199398693271814992012-02-27T18:06:54.717-06:002012-02-27T18:06:54.717-06:00Wow...just, wow. This is entitlement like I've...Wow...just, wow. This is entitlement like I've never seen. Greed, arrogance, and yes, pure evil. Send me a link via fb, Id love to read more about this.Real Daughterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16361127479878590761noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6953239816472596984.post-47863991801446969602012-02-27T16:54:56.800-06:002012-02-27T16:54:56.800-06:00Oh Susie! I am so sick to read this! I don't ...Oh Susie! I am so sick to read this! I don't interact there anymore (unless I am specifically asked to) but I have read her story as it has gone on and I cannot believe this is how she was treated.<br /><br />I hope they go to hell. I hope they will pay for what they have done to this mother and her child. <br /><br />There is no excuse for this. No reason that can ever be given to ever act in such a way. This is definitely adoption in its most darkest, cruelest way!Cassihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00274531213087340905noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6953239816472596984.post-15647776024904793912012-02-27T15:18:53.921-06:002012-02-27T15:18:53.921-06:00Unbelievable. Unconscionable. And I hope that thi...Unbelievable. Unconscionable. And I hope that this story of injustice and heartlessness is broadcast to the world.<br /><br />How's that for slander?<br /><br />I am awe struck.LisaAnnehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06436140358037471855noreply@blogger.com